What does it mean to say "I love you"? How do you become a better lover? A comprehensive list of ways to love others.
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Love it!
leo walking on the streets and suddenly someone starts to play the song: How deep is your love?
Leo : YES!
That is literally the question i was entertaining in my mind at a party this night. But it was a party, so, uh.. yeah i reflected on it for like 2 minutes. Glad to see you again, really grateful to be here with you. Much much respect and love!
Divine Timing 🙏🏼 LOVE has been trying to get my attention lately. It’s becoming louder and louder, moment by moment ✨
Me too!!! 💗💗💗💗
The essence of love is the desire for all living beings to find true happiness. When we want the best for ALL creatures, then we can honestly say that we love everybody equally.
One who appears to love one person more than another, in fact, loves nobody.
True, unconditional love revolves around sacrificing one’s selfish desires for those of his or her SUPERIORS, whether that be one’s parents, husband, employer, or spiritual master, even if they are imperfect.
Should a child disobey its mother just because the mother is flawed? Of course not! This paradigm is applicable to EVERYONE, without exception.
Even World Teachers and Avatars Themselves regularly worship their Masters and PAST Masters!
As adults we become tough and “confident” behind a persona facade. That’s actually fear I now realized! There is a deep lack of love generally in our human society. This was what I thought of when Leo described how vulnerable a baby human or monkey is compared to what the world could do to it. Fear can be seen as love too, but as a cosmic trick of separation.
The essence of love is the desire for all living beings to find true happiness. When we want the best for ALL creatures, then we can honestly say that we love everybody equally.
One who appears to love one person more than another, in fact, loves nobody.
True, unconditional love revolves around sacrificing one’s selfish desires for those of his or her SUPERIORS, whether that be one’s parents, husband, employer, or spiritual master, even if they are imperfect.
Should a child disobey its mother just because the mother is flawed? Of course not! This paradigm is applicable to EVERYONE, without exception.
Even World Teachers and Avatars Themselves regularly worship their Masters and PAST Masters!
@Spiritual Psychotherapy Services I agree with your first part, that love is equal. It can often still mean that we spend more time with some people than others, but true love is equal for everybody. The second part I disagree with since sacrifice to me means a disregard of the self, and that’s a split, an inner conflict actually, since love is wholeness in harmony, so one must include oneself in the love, not sacrifice oneself.
Love for ourselves means love for others and vice versa. It’s all the same energy
You don’t seem to practice it in real life…our relationship is the proof of it!
The essence of love is the desire for all living beings to find true happiness. When we want the best for ALL creatures, then we can honestly say that we love everybody equally.
One who appears to love one person more than another, in fact, loves nobody.
True, unconditional love revolves around sacrificing one’s selfish desires for those of his or her SUPERIORS, whether that be one’s parents, husband, employer, or spiritual master, even if they are imperfect.
Should a child disobey its mother just because the mother is flawed? Of course not! This paradigm is applicable to EVERYONE, without exception.
Even World Teachers and Avatars Themselves regularly worship their Masters and PAST Masters!
– Giving it attention and awareness
– Being in physical proximity, physical contact
– Connection (physical, emotional, intellectual, spiritual, etc)
– Taking good care of it, helping to meet its needs, sheltering it from excessive trauma, fear and or suffering
– Taking its agenda as your own, making its agenda and it an extension of you
– Treating others as well as you would like to treat yourself
– Be happy when it succeeds
– Wanting for it what it wants for its own, even when it may be very different from your own
– Sacrificing for it on its behalf, and work on their behalf
– Supporting, nurturing, and encouraging what is in alignment with their self-expression, self-exploration, and self-actualization; being a cheerleader
– Respecting its sovereignty, not holding yourself as better or more dominant
– Total acceptance of it as it is, absence of judgment
– Valuing the thing for its own sake, not for what you need
– Appreciate them as they are
– Seeing its intrinsic, infinite beauty
– Not needing anything from this other
– Respecting their point of view, wanting to understand their point of view
– Listening and caring about their interests, sharing common interests
– Sense of togetherness and company, collaboration
– Being there when the other feels down, hopeless, at their lowest
– Helping the other to not feel lonely
– Validating its feelings, empathizing (“How are you feeling?”)
– Sharing emotions
– Caring about its suffering for its own sake
– Meeting the other where they are at
– Understanding and forgiveness, not demonizing and moralizing them
– Being patient
– Seeing the god and the good in them even when they don’t
– Recognition of its uniqueness
– Generosity and kindness
– Verbal approval and praise, compliments
– Keeping your promises
– Maintaining peace
– Telling the truth
– Safety and trust
– Seeing the other’s realness as it is
– Appreciating the finite portion of consciousness as it really is, out of the infinite consciousness
– Fully accepting, and not be disturbed by its selfishness, and not wanting to change it
Love = Selflessness
Thank you for this and most of all thanks to Leo and this amazing channel ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Thankyou.
Thank you, Jenny ❤.
Thank you for sharing your notes Jenny!
Love doesn’t just benefit the person receiving the love. When you practice love, it transforms you. Practice love in everything that you do so that it becomes a fundamental part of who you are. It will become the foundation for the relationships that bring you happiness and success.
Love this
in your own words, define “HAPPINESS”. ☝️🤔☝️
God is Love, when we choose to act with love we directly participate materially and spiritually (since they are intertwined) in divine existence. I say this from a particular theological background, apparently different in many regards from Leo’s but it’s interesting that we reach the same conclusion.
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Love even those who hurt you, transcend the paradigm of bias and love unconditionally
“The basis of creation is Love. God loves his creation, and when his creation passionately loves him back, the purpose of creation is fulfilled.”
Thank you for being the best teacher Leo! I literally was talking about you in my last video and I mentioned what I learned from a guided meditation you gave about loving your sins. What a coincidence!
I think I’ve been blessed throughout my life with being able to love people and things correctly, somewhere along the way I forgot to continue exercising that on myself.
I realized I’ve lost my connection with myself sometime ago, and I’m on a path to regain it.
The main two topics that will change your life and help you develop and understand love is, RESPECT and shadow-WORK, two subjects Leo avoids like the plague, gurus and spiritual teachers will never teach you the important stuff, as Leo has stated repeatedly, his teaching will take you 10 years to grasp, only Leo can achieve a higher level of consciousness and awakening every few days. 10 more years of likes and donations is clearly explained in Leo’s teachings survival part 1, 2 and 3. Hundreds of years of spiritual teachers and gurus teaching, writing millions of books and making videos, yet people are waiting for the next video or book that will solve their life problems, but it never happens.
I know Leo knows about shadow-work and how to deal with those subconscious saboteurs that’s holding you back in life, but it’s just not profitable for Leo to share such knowledge….. with you.
If you really love a thing ( you want it to surpass you . Yes !!! Sucks when they don’t want it but I say put that energy into yourself instead 🙏🏻 thank you Leo
I always think I know more than enough about something until I see you talking about it. Just Wow. I love you my brother I’m always happy to learn something new from you especially when I’m stoned. You should make a book and publish it to the whole world in all languages and students shouldn’t be able to pass a class until they learn about it.
Actually I think that how all the religions are started, A man who had supernatural Consciousness tried to teach his people then he wrote a book and then his people wasn’t on the same level of consciousness so when he tell them about god they think he is god and now after thousands years people are killing each other and think that every God from religion is different from the other. I been searching religions for over 4 years and I watched a lot about God and I’m still learning. So I just realized the Potential of learning the tru meaning of life by learning every little thing and go to the root of it Love ❤️
I didn’t realize I wrote that much it was just like connecting the dot to paint the whole picture.
The essence of love is the desire for all living beings to find true happiness. When we want the best for ALL creatures, then we can honestly say that we love everybody equally.
One who appears to love one person more than another, in fact, loves nobody.
True, unconditional love revolves around sacrificing one’s selfish desires for those of his or her SUPERIORS, whether that be one’s parents, husband, employer, or spiritual master, even if they are imperfect.
Should a child disobey its mother just because the mother is flawed? Of course not! This paradigm is applicable to EVERYONE, without exception.
Even World Teachers and Avatars Themselves regularly worship their Masters and PAST Masters!
I’ve waited for you to make this. I’m 57 and my whole life changed when I decided to BE love in everything. My life miraculous changed to peace, bliss, serenity and incredibly, abundance. The outside of your life becomes your inside. But you know what? The outside was always your conscious pushed out. Love to you Leo.
“Some call you love,
I call you the kind of love.
You are beyond all imaginings,
taking me places
I can’t even dream of.
O ruler of my Heart, wherever you go…
Don’t go without me.”
Rumi